WHEN YOUR LIFE SUCKS: Who's to be BLAMED?

To be alive. To pursue a positive and satisfying existence. To enjoy the journey... This is Life! Have you ever wondered that you've been always caught and tangled in life's misery? LIFE SUCKS?

I my self also been in that situation, feeling down and troubled. Everything in me is very heavy and tend to blame it with other people. Yes, you got it right, I ended up blaming other people because of my misery. Sometimes there are situations that won't happened before if you won't be able to meet these people or get into situations wherein you have been involved by the same persons. I always blame people around me.

In reality, in every action we have or committed, nobody is forcing us to do so. Each and everyone of us have its own freewill. We decide for our selves and choose our own option for our own life. If somebody is forcing you to do so, you still have that option, not to follow or follow it. Let us put in this situation, due to poverty some people can't go to school for EDUCATION, but there are living proofs that some people in poverty overcome that. If they succeeded in that why can't you do it? Sometimes we just contented of what we have and never tried to strive more. Actually we are capable of doing it. We just feel weak and there goes this so called self pity, resulting to blame people around us. Blaming our own parents or friends in failures we have. Have we realized that this is our own life to govern and the sole responsible with it is yourself?

Its time to change that thing, to add up also my friends, if we stumble or fall down in our lives , that makes us a better individual. Though life is harsh and that we need to feel pain in order to learn lessons. Its a way for us to be more prepared in handling future situations which are more worst that what we encountered today. Accept to your self that you fail and change everything that leads you to that situation and certainly move on with life. Just like what MOTHER THERESA said "LIFE IS A PROMISE; FULFILL IT".

MARICAR REYES: After the STORM Still Standing Tall.

Clouds come floating to your life, no longer to carry rain or usher storm, but to add color to your sunset sky. A long while ago every tree was excited, bowing to the roaring storm, waving, swirling, tossing their branches in glorious enthusiasm like worship. But though to the outer ear these trees are now silent, their songs never cease.

So much of the VIDEO SCANDALS, These stories are over and its time to move on. As to Maricar Reyes who is involved also from this issue is gaining support from people. She maybe been silent during the times this when these scandals was just like circus and even went up to the SENATE. I know that there are a lot of speculations regarding what will happened to her. Her silence somehow make her more alienated to people and somehow been away with the limelight and focused her life how to struggle and to survive all of this.


According to a friend (close o her family) Maricar came from a good and respected family. She is educated and a good friend as well. So much to tell about her personally. My aim her is that After everything that happened she stood head high and continue life. Bravo!!! She was good with her latest guesting in "MY BUKAS PA" showned in ABS-CBN Primetime show. She also have a new show every Sunday "YOUR SONG PRESENTS: Gaano Kita Kamahal" where she take the lead role. It simply shows that she is now the hottest personalities in Philippine Showbiz. I know that this opportunities are just the beginning for her. Her chance is here now and its up to us if we will give her that chance.



She has a face of an angel and I believe that she will be surviving showbiz. I believe with her capacity and her optimism to be good with her craft. Apathy can be overcome by enthusiasm, and enthusiasm can only be aroused by two things: first, an ideal, with takes the imagination by storm, and second, a definite intelligible plan for carrying that ideal into practice. Even though there are a lot of people condemned her with that act. I believe that every one deserve a second chance.

MJ: His LEGACY LIVES ON.

“In a world filled with hate, we must still dare to hope. In a world filled with anger, we must still dare to comfort. In a world filled with despair, we must still dare to dream. And in a world filled with distrust, we must still dare to believe.”

Michael Joseph Jackson.

The world is still in shock about the unexpected death of the "KING of POP". WE are in deep sorrow and still can't believe what happened. Its seems to be unreal. Fans all over the world is giving tribute to this legendary and iconic person in the music world.

Now controversies arises about his death, about his children custody and millions of dollars of debt need to be paid. A lot of controversies involved in hiss last chapter of his life but surely the things that will be remembered is his music and contribution to the music world. A lot of artist was influenced by him, but he will never be replaced for he is the only one.

Surely we will miss you MJ, your music will lives on forever in our HEARTS, you inspired us and touched millions of people all over the world. VIVA! KING OF POP!!!

I WILL SURVIVE: After the HEARTACHE.

Oh, I'm a survivor. My whole life has been so tremendously unpleasant, I am into a surviving scenario. I had no accomplishments except surviving. YES, IT IS THE ONLY ACCOMPLISHMENT I HAVE.

I have been writing a lot of topic about HEARTACHE before, but now its kind of different. It is now the story of my life. In reality I am WEAK, yes I admit that. Well its better to accept defeat right? Accepting that i am weak makes me feel better than pretending I'm not. Actually accepting failures and defeat makes me a better individual and the most important thing is that its a way for me to survive. Surviving certain situation or obstacle on life makes me more wiser and more stronger in dealing life. I was been able to learn from my own experience. Remember that there are no mistakes in life but lessons, the hard thing with it you experience it before learning from it. It is the reality of life.


Regarding with love matter I guess I am over it. I've been single for almost three years now and I realized I survived it. So, whats the problem? right? I guess I will just wait for the right time and the right person in my life. I just learned that the more I involved my self to someone and seek for a new relationship the more it complicates my life. The good thing with it, I never close my heart seeing other people and I did not close my heart. I was hurt and its just a part of life, no more complains but I should live my life. LOVE YOUR SELF FIRST. LOL!!!!

LOVE HURTS! LOVE SCARS! In the end of the DAY its up to you to MOVE ON.

Sometimes, love hurts. The abrasions of love have inspired many great writers. From Shakespeare to Jane Austen, writers have at some time or the other dwelt upon the anguish called love. One does not love a place the less for having suffered in it unless it has all been suffering, nothing but suffering.

This may sound really bad but what I am implying here is that we or most of us experience pain regarding and dealing with LOVE. The real reason why I want to tackle this thing is for the fact that today I realized something. I've been in loved with someone and promised my self that I will keep my eyes and heart to that someone even though I was been told that we should be better as friends only, nothing more nothing less.


Its been months that I keep or denying it to myself, pursued what I want. We are in good terms actually but it hurts me a lot that I was considered as friend only. I was delusional to think that we are indeed have a deeper sense of relationship, more than being friends.

Today, we exchanged sms and I was awaken from that dream. I realized something, I missed a lot of things while clinging on that hope, that someday we will be together as lovers. The good thing with it, I accept what is real and truth. I accept it with open heart and mind. Accepting facts sometimes is very painful, but in the end of the day you will never see your rainbows end or be happy with your life if you will not move on with it. Now, I think is the right time to enjoy my self and meet new individuals that will enter into my life. Its been a long time that I excluded my self to others because of that expectations of mine. Now, I considers my self to be more open to this kind of situation that indeed I deserve better than this. Not necessarily its the bad thing but I can be happier during that time I was in slaved by my emotions and false hope. Lets face this, I may sound so emotional but it is what I feel. I believe that everyone of us had been in this situation before.

The best thing to do is to let go and start over with life. Enjoy life every day, every hour, every minute ans seconds. Life is too short after all. Its time to move on. Happy that both parties are in Good terms until now. I love you still but I will let go for now or maybe forever. I have my life to deal with... See you soon.